May 12th, 2006

in a blank state of mind

a lot of people not just people but my friends,classmates,close friend, far-away friends are leaving the country for a better life.. heck my family is planning to do that also but i have the the privilege to chose where I want to live which others did not have. i just feel so sad.. john is next on september.. the feeling of emptiness continues.. now here is the thing.. will i go to canada when we get approved or continue to search for the answers on how to be succesful here in our forbidden country? I think i will go for the latter.. keep searching and keep dreaming..

haha here is the result of my unproductiveness blogging during office hours.. ciao!

*i hate people who make up stories and this girl who owes me 13k for years now please please do not let me be totally berserk here!!!

Posted by basti_ortiz at 04:03 AM | bothered

March 4th, 2006

update

while waiting for the game to finish i mean my kinda source income let me update my blog.. the past month until now is all downhill for us.. well, my lolo until now is still in the ICU and our family especially my tita carries the burden of paying the bills which is like 50k a day.. its been tough for us.. well maybe because of pride that my family doesn't want to ask help from anyone of our relatives. the good thing about what is happening now is that we learn to pray and be together as a family.. we are beginning to live a simpler life i myself decided to stop having a driver, to commute to school which is really exhausting, to no longer ask for any allowance and to switch from line to prepaid.. yikes thats the hardest.. so much realizations ds past weeks on living a semi-independent and simpler life... First, i was living the "life" when i have a driver.. I can go anywhere. sleep anytime in the car and just relax. While commuting, i wake up 5:30 and dad will drop me off in pasay rotonda mrt and the place is worse the cubao i mean i am really not used to it but ironically i am enjoying the "danger" i am living the life of the the majority of the Filipino. Another realization is that it sucks when you gamble and lose coz thats my own money we are talking about now. It is no longer my parents money. Another thing is that i am just feeling college just now. The indepence and all. Lastly, is the importance of a family and my girlfriend i mean they are my strength. I ranted to joey the first week of this new life coz im not used to it plus the toxic of school load. But now i am beginning to learn, to shape up and be mature enough. life now is the microcosm of evey Filipino and i am fine with it.. The money spending is gone.. no more havaianas, no more parties but more of joey haha well i will take that anytime hehe.. I just pray to god that everything will be fine for lolo and my family.. I will dedicate my life to lolo.. He is my inspiration to be a lawyer someday and i know my sacrifices is not enough on the hardship he is feeling right now.. all for lolo.. all for god..

 

Out of Topic:

I want to go to batanes this summer.. i like the scenery.. does anybody knows how to go there? meron bng hotel don? i know houses there are made of rocks.. hehe i know its the topmost part of the country.. baka maraming chinita malapit na sa taiwan eh hahaha.. well talk about belt-tightening my summer plan was bora tapos ngayon batanes na lang hehehe.. again it will be just fine..

Posted by basti_ortiz at 05:52 AM | bothered

January 31st, 2006

here's the update!!!!

update!!!

 

 jgiorjgbshotookepkhkmgotk[pqwp[kbpkhokp[kkppw k? hehe! life is unpredictable so as my words!!!

Posted by basti_ortiz at 01:02 PM | 1 bothered

December 24th, 2005

still standing after six

whenever i pass by bellarmine field and look at the christmas lights i told myself to surprise whoever my first girlfriend in that romantic field.. the field, lights and the church are put into one place.. plus you add the christmas wind and atmosphere make me feel the love of the yuletude.. 

       A month ago i planned the surprise already.. i even told burns to come along with my plan with his girlfriend.. i originally planned to talk to the guards and turn the lights off for a moment and when i give the signal for them to turn it on like a snap of my finger then alam na! haha.. but what happened last night wasn't a smooth as i planned... but joewiwi was surprised anyway.. her smile was enough for me to be satisfied that my plan in a way worked.. i covered her eyes.. set-up my banig put up two candles haha.. and brought some sweets.. then uncovered her eyes then.... tanan.. happy six months and a merry christmas... love you joey.. im always been a flaker and all but not that time around... it's time for game time... thank you for your patience.. and merry christmas... my bellarmine field fantasies went to reality.. ciao.. merry christmas to all.. and il tell you this xmas is the best so far.. my cousins from the states and all... wow saya.. time to forget accounting and school muna and enjoy the holidays..

bonus haha: the night in school ended with the simbang gabi of fr.nebres.. i saw apo hiking haha.. and the 1 minute fireworks haha.. but is ole good...

my friend offered me to write in young star and received 1k-2k per article.. but what will i write?! im in the thinking process right now... being a writer is not for me.. my english sucks as well as my grammage.. but hey i have my article name already.. how about: sex in ateneo!? how bout that? then il be the next carrie bradshaw or something.. yikes.. give me your two cents worth will you?

 

Posted by basti_ortiz at 12:10 PM | bothered

December 2nd, 2005

way to go banda girls.. featured article of guidon wow..

Something blue:
   Not-so-little drummer girls
by Stacie L. Ong 
 

They're the team within the team, behind the teams.

Most Ateneans don't realize that there are girls in the Blue Babble Band-girls who play drums amidst all the testosterone that the Band generally represents. In a 37-member band, there are five females who don't consider themselves in the minority. But, rather, they're a special group.

Making the band
Meet Ateneo's drummer girls: the bass drummers include Mac Claudio (II BS MIS), Elsa Parungao (II BS MIS), and Ria Redulla (III BS MCT), while Justine Perez (II AB MEco) and Bea Samson (I AB MEco) play the snare drums. Most of them have only started drumming for the Blue Babble this year, with Justine being the veteran and the only girl who played last year. Most of them also had little to no experience in drumming and were only cheerleading in high school. The girls say that they joined the band due to a combination of the desire to experience it and the good kind of peer pressure. "I've always wanted to join before, but I always thought that it was only for boys," Ria says. Friends and blockmates invited them to join the band and promised them that they'd have fun. And they've never looked back since.

The five-day tryout period was something they remember fondly. "They taught us the beats and made us all play together after each session," Elsa recalls. "Four days [of] teaching the cheers and training. On the last day, it's only the tryouts proper," Ria explains. "You have to play the beats they call. The judges have their backs faced to you [so there would be] no bias."

What the girls don't relate to too fondly though is physical training (PT). It was part of the tryout period, as well as a regular activity in their practices, that ensured they would be fit enough to handle the tasks of being a Band drummer. "I just remember we mopped the Blue Eagle Gym floor after jogging, with our backs and sweat," says Elsa.

A man's world?
Once they were in the band-and they found themselves being the only women-the comparisons and contrasts were too stark to ignore. "Hindi ka makapaghubad ng shirt 'pag pawis ka na! (You can't take your shirt off even though you're doused in sweat!)" Mac jokes. The girls complain about their relatively limited movements, especially when they're wearing their white pants as part of the uniform during games and it's "that time of the month." On the other hand, that very same problem gives them an advantage over the men-"it's always an excuse not to join PT"-and they also enjoy the occasional acts of chivalry from the guys. All in all though, the guys and girls are on the same plane. "That's the first thing our coach told us [on our] first meeting-dapat pantay lahat (everyone should be equal)," Elsa says.

They have a lot of praise for their coach, Andre Quimpo, for not only making sure that there were no such thing as "minorities" in the Band, but more importantly, for also teaching them to be independent and responsible. "He always believes that we can stand up and be the best by ourselves, not because we're always following. He teaches us to be the best to the very last detail," Ria explains. "Like for our drumline piece, he let us do whatever we wanted. He was there to guide us and help us out when we're having trouble with something," Elsa adds.

Little corner of the world
Although they admit they didn't automatically become close in the beginning, they at least had something in common with each other that was unique to the rest of the band-it was a familial bond waiting to happen. Like any other group of girls, they have their share of inside jokes, secrets, code names, stories, and of course, information about clothes and shopping. Ria says that they're all very particular about being girls in the band, citing the time she wore a skirt to the tryouts and how she and the rest of the girls took their time to fix themselves up before their drumline performance. "We still have our own little girls' world even among the guys," says Ria. "The banda boys become curious at times," Bea adds. Justine says that the guys sometimes try to listen in on their conversations, which only adds to the fun dynamic the whole band has. In fact, the girls were christened by the rest of the band with the collective nickname "Spice Girls" just this season. True enough, they have their own little world that they proudly cherish.

As coincidences go, each girl in the band actually had something in common with each member of the original pop group, and thus, their Spice Girl monikers. The other girls confess that they were intimidated by Ria when they were only starting out, granting her the Scary Spice moniker. Elsa is considered the most fashionable and has done some modeling as well, making her Posh Spice, while her blockmate Mac is Sporty Spice because she hardly gets tired during practices and training sessions. Bea, being the youngest, gets the Baby Spice slot and the rest of the girls have dubbed Justine their Ginger Spice since she doesn't show up sometimes whenever she's busy with schoolwork.

"We literally play until we bleed"
As for the workload that comes with being in the band, the girls go through quite a struggle, dividing time between school and the band, especially during the season with longer practices at night and Thursday class cuts for games. "It's not just the training time itself. When you go home, you barely have energy left to stay up and study," Ria says. They are able to manage the juggling act, but not without sacrifices in social life and family life as well as other extra-curricular activities.

When it comes to setbacks, the girls admit to some disappointments especially with how the crowd only cheers for the team when they're leading or even when a fight breaks out, or when someone gets injured. They say that it really is tough to get a crowd going at a point when the team really needs the support. "We're there to encourage the crowd to cheer, they only have to respond," Elsa says. Nonetheless, they're devoted to the Blue Babble Band-"no matter what happens [at the] games, we still love what we're doing," Bea says. "We literally play until we bleed."

They also enjoy the respect and camaraderie within the band as well as with the other schools' bands, the perks, such as free tickets and discounts, and of course, drumming itself. It's a fun and inspiring way for them to contribute to the Ateneo community. They all agree that being in the band is sort of their own statement, to show others not to underestimate them and their skills. "I'm proud of being able to represent and cheer for my school," Ria says. "I'm also proud of being in the Babble Band as a girl and of being able to show everyone that we can have the capacity and ability to play the drums as hard as we can." 

http://altg.theguidon.com/2005November//features01.php

 

Posted by basti_ortiz at 04:41 PM | bothered
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